Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Recently I told a friend that I'd transfer one of my MySpace blog entries (written 5/16/06) to Facebook. Then I remembered I needed to add it to my blog.
The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm [see link to 1970 article!]
As an Aquarius, I bring water to the people. I like to think water is information. It's about time I brought information to you on female sexuality.
A woman has three genital organs with separate purposes: the clitoris for pleasure--the only body part with no other purpose but pleasure, the urethra for urination, and the vaginal canal for intercourse and reproduction. A man has one genital organ with all three purposes. So the man's orgasm is connected to reproduction, while the woman's orgasm is just for fun. Did you know that the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings while the penis has 4,000?!
According to zoology, a female human only reproduces 10 percent of the time and she gives no sign of impregnatability to males. Ninety percent of sex for her is bonding. (Both women and men produce a bonding chemical called oxytocin, but women produce more.) For female animals, they do send out impregnatability signals to males and reproduce 90 percent of the time. It is said that humans, bonobos, and dolphins are the only species which have sex for pleasure only.
The "G-Spot" is named after the man (Grafenberg) who "discovered" it. However, all the "G-Spot" (located about two inches deep within the vagina) is...is the back of the clitoris. The clitoris is actually four inches long into the female body! The average vaginal canal is also four inches long. And the average erect penis is six inches long, so the "size matters" argument is gross misinformation. The vagina only has nerve endings at the beginning of the canal, so any size penis suffices. Not to mention, intercourse provides indirect clitoral stimulation at best. Not to compare humans to objects, but "it's the motion of the ocean, ain't the size of the ship." It takes the average woman 20 minutes to orgasm, while it takes the average man two minutes (or the average person 11 minutes).
And you'll notice that sexual circumcision in Africa is about removing the clitoris from the female--they're not removing "G-Spots."
Furthermore, in 70 years of study, experts find that the vast majority of women who orgasm during intercourse do so in a "woman superior" (woman on top) position.
Read more here (a famous article from 1970): http://www.cwluherstory.com/CWLUArchive/vaginalmyth.html
I still agree that the v orgasm is a myth, but otherwise this site is right on: http://femaleorgasmsecrets.com/
Minus the vulgar slang, this article is also right on (the woman needs to orgasm first--and BEFORE intercourse): http://www.cleansheets.com/coverstories/regentin_12.07.05.shtml
And for the center of attention: http://www.the-clitoris.com